Threesomes have increasingly become popular among modern couples who want to escape a typical boring relationship and add a bit of spark to their sex life. I personally love haivng a threesome, especially when it’s with someone or people I meet using any casual hookup site.
Not too long ago, the idea of having a threesome was considered to be taboo, until it was made popular through mainstream media. Now it’s accepted and it’s easier than ever to arrange one too.
Even today, a lot of TV shows and movies are showing threesomes openly. This certainly makes the public feel more comfortable and open towards having one. Truth be told, it’s a very popular fantasy, but people rarely engage in it as much as they’d like. If you have already decided that you want to do a threesome, you need to make sure you’re prepared to do it. If you are, then you’re going to end up having tons of fun. Here are a few things to take into consideration when planning a threesome.
Things To Remeber When Planning A Threesome
The first thing you need to avoid is any form of miscommunication with your partner. That is if you’re not single. Make sure you very clearly discuss the idea of having the threesome together. Make sure your talk involves all the expectations, fears and boundaries with the people involved. Now, if you’re the single party, then you’re in luck! It’s all about just fucking in that case for you.
Threesomes are incredibly great and successful if both of you only care about having a different sexual experience. In other words, it should not involve any sort of emotional connection between the three people involved. That only causes problems in the long run.
The most important thing is setting boundaries for the both of you. Talk to your partner(s) about the idea and discuss what you want to achieve when it comes to your threesome. Decide whether you want to have a threesome with a third male partner or a female partner. Will you be meeting this new person or will you simply invite them over based on their attraction? If you’re looking to meet someone to invite, I’d suggest you use a site like Uberhorny to find a potential partner.
If you plan on bringing in a third person, then it’s also very important to not make the person you are with jealous. If they see you enjoying your time with the third person, it could cause problems. Ensure that you clearly tell your partner that no matter what happens, you will stick with your commitment with them.
You must also make sure that the third person is not connected to either of you in any way. In many threesome cases where a good friend is involved, it often causes problems. You want someone who you do not know personally to be your third partner because you want to keep your threesome a secret. You want to say good bye to the third person after you are done.
If you occasionally like having threesomes and you incorporate them as a part of your sex life then more power to you!